Sunday, May 21, 2006

So what is your church like?

I admit, we get this question fairly often...both from folks here, and our friends back home. It's taken us a while to nail this one down, mostly because church here is SO totally different from what we know/knew in the states. Take a deep breath - this a longer post than we usually get out.

Let's start with the building style.
It's a barn.

Literally, that is what it is. But before you think about all the barns you know, consider this. Barns here in South Germany are generally rather nice. This particular barn is owned by a farm that produces apples, grapes, cherries, etc. Not a dairy barn.
We meet in an upstairs loft area that is rather large. Old theater rows are used for seating (attached to plywood bases for easy maneuvering). There is an advanced sound and overhead display system for the services and even a translation service (for us Amerikaner who do not quite catch all of the sermon text).
Downstairs from this area is a restaurant (run by the farm - it's called the "Funfschilling" - literally "Five Shilling") and what is known as KIGO-land. This is the children's area and also where we shared meals with the church community. I use the past tense there, as the meals have stopped in preparation for the Summer break - and also to get ready for a move to a new facility in September.

Summer Break? um, yeah. Most FEG's around here have a break for the Summer. Not uncommon, in fact. FEG, remember, is the Frei Evangelische Gemeinde (free evangelical community) and they encourage the use of small groups - to the extent that when the services stop next week (on Sunday), the expectation is that worship will continue through September in small groups. We are looking into a group that is English-speaking (not being 100% certain of our ability to function in a German-speaking Bible study). Once things start back up in September, there will be a LOT going on. Look for the link at the end of this mssg for info on FEG-Rebland (all in German - welcome to our world, hehehe).

Offering plates.
At the opening of the service, after a song or two has been sung by the praise band, two bags are passed along the rows. One bag is empty, for offering. The other has popcorn in it. Kettle-corn, actually. Some folks in the mission community refer to FEG-Rebland as the "popcorn church".

Music.
Quite good, actually. A praise band meets every week to go over music for the service. There are many 'standard' praise and worship songs sung. Not "Come to Jesus in whole notes" (a reference for the DBC choir director - hi Dave!!! WE MISS YOU!!!!) but generally a really good, solid song. Rock, more often than not (Dave, I know you've added drums to some aspects of the service, now if you can just add more cowbell ...). Of course, the majority of the songs are in German (sometimes with English subtitling, but more often without). There will usually be a guest group or singer at the very start. This week it was a trio, rapping in German, about family and friends. The sermon was on relationship, so that worked.

Youth Group.
This is one area that these folks are nailing pretty well. They encourage the youth to meet in small groups for Bible study (all auf Deutsch, so we are handling this at home for our two oldest, until their German is better enough to dive in) and then they have two tracks, based on age, for the youth. Younger youth have the "Big Games" (BG) every weekend. This is divided by gender (Big Games for Girls, Big Games for Guys) with one joint BIG Big Games each month where guys and girls get together. For both groups, it is more game-oriented. Fußball, mostly. This past weekend the girls went to see "Asterix and the Vikings" in the Kino in Lörrach. I was rather proud that both my girls went to this all-German, no subtitled movie and had a blast. Understood it, too. (And my oldest brought a friend from her school, which was cool). I've attached a couple of pics from the previous BG for an idea of how it looks.

Interesting thing about the BG - no Bible study! hmmmm. It's all about the friendships and relationships - which is how Jesus began his ministry, so why not start that way as well? It is actually a VERY good model for us to follow. As a community outreach, you can get more youth involved just by offering something for them to do together, then get them into smaller groups as you go along. A different model for growing community and discipling than what we are used to, but it seems to be working pretty well in this church.

A quick note: the pics are not from the church, but from another building - the Tonwerk - just down the road. Kind of a rustic place to hang out for the youth.

Sermon.
Interesting. Fresh. German. We have to get this through translation, so some things are literally lost, but the young man who speaks most often (I say young, he's 33) does try to put in a fairly balanced message of biblical truth, contemporary info, and sound theology. I can't be critical on the last bit, as my gifts lie in the realm of Web site design and art, not in hermeneutics or eschatology :-) He's generally pretty good. Other speakers have been likewise gifted.

Does this answer the question about "what is your church like?" probably not entirely. The very word, church, over here is geared so much toward a structure. It is a building (eine Kirche) and not a community. That is why the G part of FEG (the "community" part) is so important. We live in one community, worship in another, work in a third, learn in a fourth. The idea of interlocking rings suggests itself, and it is where those communities overlap that our real work lies.

[for more about where we go each Sunday, check out feg-rebland.de]

Untitled ... ... while running errands

I finally have something that I feel is blog worthy. I have been absent from blogging for various reason, most of which have to do with time margins and then also the problem of too many wonderful things to write about or not enough and if I were an actual honest to goodness writer they would have been wonderfully transformed onto blog "paper". 
Well I have one for you ... I am  running errands, you know dropping off kids, picking up kids, going to the grocery store. That errand running busy stuff, when on the radio comes this song ... we are living in Germany now, right?, so you would think that I listen to German radio music, if only it were that simple and that easy. The music that comes over the airwaves in our neck o' the woods is a combo of American TIMEWARP 70's and 80's with some German pop thrown in and German DJ's for the news , traffic and weather, because we are in Germany, right (?). The Germans love this type of music. Hey, it's good for me. I get to embarass my kids by singing and actually knowing all the words to "Joy to the World", no, not the Christmas carol, but I do know all the words to that one, but I mean "Jeremiah Was a Bullfrog", you remember that one? ...and others. Well, I'm winding down a road when I hear this twang of a song come on and I have never heard it before , so I turn it up ... it is one of the campyest 70's/80's songs I believe I have ever heard and I needed to ask myself where was I? which decade?, which continent?, which planet even? ... then I remember that only in Germany would I hear in English, while winding at 70 kph in a Ford mini-van, through beautiful senic vineyards, this long lost ballad by Stan Ridgeway, "Camouflage".*
Ain't life grand? I laughed till my sides hurt and I even sat in the car in the driveway till the song finished ... just a snapshot of our life here so far....
*ps...it is a song about a marine in '65 in the jungles of Veeitnaam, and how this soilder, "Camouflage," saves him from the enemy. The soldier returns to camp safely, only to find that the person who helped him, had been lying dead in a tent for a week......
pss..for the record I love campy songs

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Herr Mutter

That's Mr. Mom, in German (or as near as I can make it).
Madge has been in language school going on 5 weeks now. Over the halfway point and looking for that proverbial light at the end of the tunnel ...

Basically, what this means is that I have been trying to cover her bases as well as my own, 'cause frankly she is not much able or willing to take care of house and kids when she has a ton of homework. And, ya know what? I'm not quite sure how mom's do it all (I certainly appreciate her more!) and I'm positive that I do not do nearly as good a job at it as she does. The kids have been great, real troopers, although I think that the PBJ's get old pretty quick. Being the cheauffer, short-order cook, house-cleaner (not a good one, mind you) and yard-boy (ok, I'm good at that) is rather exhausting.

I know that Madge is looking forward to getting back to her routine of walking our son to kindergarten, hanging out with the other moms (and understanding the conversations a little better) and generally being able to relax for a change.

So this is me saying "Happy Belated Mother's Day" to all the mom's out there (on the field and off). You've got my admiration and understanding!!